Thursday, April 12, 2012

Equal Rights?

You know what really annoys me?  Feminism.

Young, opinionated females really love to make their voices heard about this issue.  They want the same employment opportunities and salaries as their male coworkers.  They want to see women in government offices.  They want their husbands/boyfriends to split the household chores.  They want to be able to play on male sports teams if they so desire.   They want men to stop objectifying them.  Basically, the want equality. 

This argument doesn’t quite make sense to me.  I mean, it’s 2012 now, ladies.  They let us out of the kitchen decades ago!  As far as I’m concerned, I’m not lacking in my “women’s rights.”  A feminist will correct me.  The problem isn’t solved yet, they will say.  Yes, we’ve come a long way, but we won’t stop until men and women are equal.  Completely and totally equal.

I don’t think a lot of feminists realize what they’re asking for.  100% equality with men would mean that women should be required to register for the draft and be expected to contribute to half of the dinner bill.  In a equal world, we should hold doors open for guys and let them go first.  We should ask them out and even propose to them.  It should be acceptable for them to hit us… I  mean, they hit each other, and we want to be just like them, right? Now I don’t know about you, but that’s not the kind of world I want to live in.  I like it when a guy offers to carry something heavy for me or walks me home when it’s dark out just because he’s a guy.  Women have exponentially more opportunity now than they did in the past, and I’m so glad that we do.  But we cannot whine for equal rights only when it suits us and then reclaim our subordinance when it doesn’t.  We cannot have our cake and eat it too.  

When feminists argue for women’s rights, they are debating an issue that really isn’t much of an issue anymore, at least not in today’s American society.  Men, at least the good ones, actually do respect women.  No, things aren’t perfect.  But in 2012, we don’t need women to tell the world that they can do what men do--We need them to do what men do.  And if we’re going to complain about equal rights instead of just taking the responsibility and initiative to accomplish whatever we want in life like men have been doing all along, then maybe we really are the lesser sex.

2 comments:

  1. I love this. I am in complete agreement. There is no way women lack in rights and feminists are so annoying. I think it is that way for most groups that were once minority they try and push for more rights, but they do not want all the responsibility that it comes with.

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  2. I agree with you incertain areas. Yes as women, especially those who are feminists, we find us contradicting ourselves when we ask for equal rights but expect an old school courting style. But as for women's right I still do believe it is an issue in the United States, for example recently with issues concerning reproductive rights. The violations of our rights are not so apparent as was forty years ago, but it is in the clauses of some legislation that you find injustice.

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